.But what Astrid does not recognize yet is a truth that both Ortega as well as O'Hara-- who has two boys-- may attest to: The fact that your relationship with your moms and dads modifications and also develops as you both age, and with any luck right. "Your globe centers around [your children] when they're babies [and also] it's so much work but attractive," O'Hara says. "Later, you actually overlook that, given that after that you can't receive all of them to do just about anything you prefer all of them to accomplish, because they start establishing their own thoughts, their own opinions." As well as eventually, you wind up in the location O'Hara, whose children remain in their 20s and 30s, finds herself now, able to pick up from her children. "They are actually merely such awesome youthful individuals," she says. "I am actually certainly not their buddy, however I enjoy having discussions with all of them and also getting to know just how they think of life.".